Take control.
You are able to make the choices you want for your loved one.
Whether you are organising your own funeral or going through a funeral director, the decisions you make are yours.
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I will meet with the you to create a unique and personal cremation, burial or memorial ceremony that celebrates their life.
Celebration of Life
When I get to know the families I work with, I hold them in my heart. The meaning behind the words of the ceremony become so much more.
I love creating individual bespoke ceremonies, and I find great joy in learning about each unique individual who has passed and being able to create a send off they would have wanted and deserved.
Loss and grief
Death can be a very scary reality to face, and organising a funeral can feel like a daunting and monumental task.
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I will be there with you, through the emotional journey of losing a loved one. I will be there to listen and be at your side as you tell me about the person you have lost.
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Together, we create a ceremony that best represents the wants and needs of your loved one. We shall grieve together, say goodbye together and celebrate the life that they had.
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Loss is painful. I will guide you through that grief.
I will weave your memories and anecdotes into a eulogy that best describes your loved one.
I personally have experienced great loss and through that experience I can guide your way through the fog. I want to give your loved one the send off they deserve and would have wanted.
I want to take you through that grieving process and together say goodbye in a trusting, loving and peaceful environment.
I always think that however hard it is to lose a loved one, it is still incredibly important to celebrate that precious life that is no more.
How I Work
I will meet with you initially and get to know everything you would like to tell me about the person who has died. The meeting will be between 1-2 hours.
We will discuss the Order of Service.
I will ask for memories, music , and about the life of your loved one. You may wish to write your own eulogy that I would be happy to deliver or be your voice should the occasion be too much.
A few days later I will email you over a copy of the draft script and eulogy for you to approve and amend .
The service usually follows -
Introductory music
Words of welcome
Thoughts on life and death
Eulogy /Tributes
Reading of poetry / prose
Reflection - silent reflection or music
Committal
Closing Words/ thanks on your behalf/ invitation to wake
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Exit Music
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Poetry/Readings
Trying to find the right reading or poem for your funeral service?
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I will help you find the perfect reading/poem/script. If we can't find one that resonates with you, I'll write you a personal poem, unique to you and your loved one.